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Review - Love Sex Aur Dhoka: Betray convention, seduce audience

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Rating: Watch for sure, preferably in theatre (rating scale) - Only for people who can stomach non-standard
Each of the three stories has a newspaper story item quality about it and thus is as enchanting as that can get. But the novel way in which it is recorded and narrated is engrossing. But, be warned it is not your movie if you are the kind who takes offense easily or can't handle non-escapist cinema.
[Poster for Love Sex Aur Dhoka]

You see on screen what you might read with your morning cup of coffee. Except that it's less fictitious and feels closer to reality than the paid-for articles offered by the mainstream media. (Unless of course, you rely on your twitter timeline for your daily dose of news.) Love Sex Aur Dhokha is cinema about how uncinematic life really is. Because in reality, love might not be as easy a cakewalk as narrated by YRF Films or as true either. A DDLJ-type love with due credit, a comment on our voyeuristic nature, and a sting operation make us introspect about the society we live in.

Superficially, none of the three short films are exactly out of the ordinary. But there is something more than a story, director/writer Dibakar Banerjee is narrating. Yes, Rahul-Shruti's story is a spoof of happy cinema. And I had the same issued I had with it as I have with spoofy films that add nothing new but use the excuse of parody to do exactly what they are mocking at. Yeah, it also jeers at the how films are made in Bollywood - story being disregarded, etc. We've seen quite a bit of that. So, there's nothing new there. But it is also a comment on the Indian parent psyche - their priorities as guardians and a demonstration of their unconditional love.

While all three stories are about our keen interest in other people's lives, Adarsh-Rashmi's story makes it loud and clear what the entire film is hinting at. Have we ever wondered how many "bad things" in the world would have not occurred if it were not for our boredom in our daily lives. For those of us who take pleasure in others' misfortunes, would do it only to make their lives less mundane, right? Why else would the life of a regular, not-so pretty-looking salesgirl at a dull general store interest us at all?

Then there are issues that need to be exposed. Our media should be responsible for it. Some media groups take it upon themselves to reveal society's ugly face. But, how selfless are they? They bank on the same prying human nature to pick their stories. The theme of betrayal - from personal infidelity to how unfaithful media is with us - is repetitively emphasized by crossing, double-crossing, triple-crossing and more in the Prabhat-Nayna story.

By the way, just one word for the entire cast - pure awesome! How can you comment on something that is made to look so regular, so ordinary that you think you can do it?

Sure there is a connection between the stories in terms of characters crossing paths, but the connection seeps deep. No, the predictability of each story is not what I'm hinting at. Sure, none of the climaxes per se are shocking, but there is an all pervasive them of love, sex and dhokha (betrayal) running through the film. While one element might be over-powering than the rest in each one of them, the other two aspects are not far behind. Also common is the sort-of open-ended climaxes to all three stories. You know what actually happened, but the motivations of the characters is left to your interpretation. Interestingly, you can ask the same question of the entire superficial connection. Had the links in one story been picked up by characters from the other story, this one could have been not-so-dark.

There is a fourth element in the film which is silent but you cannot shake it off - the camera. The camera is left around, almost as if its presence is pure coincidental, if not accidental. I can only imagine how much thought must have gone into making the camera-placement look so casual. That with the non-traditional lighting set a very dark tone to the film, which of course are justified by the nature of the stories.

What is very traditional though, is the marketing technique deployed. The use of the word 'sex' to arouse curiosity and create an aura of sensuousness is nothing more than a publicity gimmick. Anyone going in expecting even soft-porn is going to be seriously disappointed. And Banerjee-saaheb, et tu? An item number with the closing credits? Yeah, yeah, yeah…spoof and all that jazz.

Love Sex Aur Dhokha is not watchable just for you to decipher its comment on us as individuals or society. There are plenty that do that. It is not something you should go for just to see the ace-class production values. Nor is it just for seeing something different. It is one of those one-offs that are made worthy by the whole package.

"Why should such a film be made at all?", the prude may ask. Why should any film be made at all? And the argument begins…

- meetu, a part of the audience

Parental Guidance:

    Do you even know the title of the film? Actually, seriously, it's not as much as the use of the word sex or betrayal that kids shouldn't watch the film. Do the really young need to be exposed to our dark nature so early in life? Can't we protect them a little longer?
  • Violence: Gunshots. Nothing shown on screen but a brutal murder is implied.
  • Language: Strong profanity used every once in a while.
  • Nudity & Sexual content: One scene implying love-making, one blurred-out sex scene, and some seduction.
  • Concept: Love, sex aur dhokha (betrayal)
  • General Look and Feel: Dark and gloomy.

Detailed Ratings:

  • Direction: 5
  • Story: 3.5
  • Lead Actors: 5
  • Character Artists: 5
  • Dialogues: 4
  • Screenplay: 5
  • Music Director: 4
  • Lyrics: 4

Love Sex Aur Dhoka - Movie Details

Comments (37)

hitesh:

i really want to watch this movie...not only cause of the content but also that dibakar banerjee is really good at story telling.........

i like the way you said that real life is not what YRF or Dharma production shows....they always make those larger than life characters......but hoping this movie would be much more realistic.....hope to watch it soon....

\,,/

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Rahul:

Will definitely watch this one, but waiting for your review of Lahore.

Oh, and can you fix the links in the review. They all point to the review itself.

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
IdeaSmith:

Dropping in to check out your advice before going to the box office. Just stopped to add that I loved the way you tied off the post. Great ending!

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Manan:

Two things.. this is a Dibakar's film, so have to watch it.. another didn't expect review from you this much early.. Thanks for that... I am used to come to this site for review on Friday night / Sat'day morning.. you gave a pleasant surprise..

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
El nino:

bored with the candy floss movies? the 100 bucks you spend on LSD will make money-wallahs invest in intelligent movies. pls go support alternative cinema. dont expect khosla or lucky. go discover something different. superficially, the 3 stories are "L" "S" "D". but scratch a bit, and all 3 are abt LSD. the amateur cast is superbly amateur. BRILLIANT production design. if anyone could make this movie, it was dibakar!

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
meetu:

@Hitesh I don't mind non-realistic drama. It's just that we have way too much of it.

@Rahul Just saw Lahore, writing it up. Fixing the links too. In just a minute.

@Idea oh what fun! Waiting to hear what you think.

@Manan yeah i do try to get the review out as soon as possible. It worked this time!

@El Nino yeah, good fun, na!? Oh and forgot to thank you for the nachos ;)

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Deepak:

Well written..
m still smitten by dibakar's powress..
but i think the
'An item number with the closing credits?'
is justified as the music video features naina..
but
This shud be the movie that breaks grounds and actually lauded all over the world...
pulp fiction homage to the restaurant shootout?,may be..may be not

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Dattaprasad Godbole:

Pagal kar dala dibakar ne, hadh hai yar. Koi consistently acchi movies kaise de sakta hai?

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
navi:

yes dibakar is really very good director he prove again his talent
love the movie songs. to download the song visit
http://lovesexaurdhokha.com

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
mayur :

just a word............. fantastic!!!!!!!!!!
cant say any thing about it..
and hope this review is not given in any kind pressure because the earlier two movies of dibakar(both winning national awards)received very cold review from you, but those movies were also gems created by dibakar,national awards are proof for them.

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Shardul Doshi:

I am the odd man out here, I hated the movie, and thought it was crap. The cast was great, but movie was crap.

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Cine Freak:

This is one of the most powerful films to have come out of the Bollywood line up, one has to go back to the 80's to think of films with such impact, and then Bollywood as a cultural entity did not exist.
The vulnerability of women and their simultaneous exploitation, as they struggle to survive in a male dominated world, the notions of honour, status, and manhood as understood by men and played out over and on women's bodies and lives inspite of our "moderni values", and the sheer callousness and apathy of the consumer society are all very well bought out here. It is no accident that the director has chosen a shop / supermarket as the setting - that ultimate symbol of middle class consumerism, which is a "public space" purely concerned with economics and nothing else, where everything is an object , and no concern is private.
The film owes more than its structure to the Spanish film Amores Perros, but that is fine as the Director has tackled material which is firmly situated in the context of "middle class India".

It was very interesting to note the audience reactions; composed mostly of young men and women mostly from the north of the Vindhyas. Laughter, cat calls, some jeers, all from the men, and a constant chatter as if they had seen all this a thousand times before and that these stories were very familiar to them.
I hope that is not true; if so, then we truly live in shocking times.
PS Lots of typos in your review!

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
cinefreak:

I do not think the final item number is a spoof or a marketing gimmick, I think the Director realises that his film is on the whole extremely grim and bleak. The multiplex audience is not really looking to watch such a film ,rather they are looking for "entertainment" whatever that means. And so the item number at the end to reassure the audience that irrespective of what you might have just watched, All is Well! Do not take it too seriously.

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
lame_guy:

Its been a long time since i saw a bollywood movie which had me rooted to my seat. LSD is really worth every penny spent. The cast just fits into their roles, and gives the film 'REAL' feel.

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
vibhu:

Wowwwwwwwwwww

Wat a movie
a must see film

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Noopur:

masterpice... just cant imagine, how much amount of deataling must have gone in the making...

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Noopur:

and i dont think there should be any problem with the title or the 'publicity gimmick' or the 'item song' with the end credits... i think the the title is absolutely apt and the last song was the most appropriate culmination to the film....

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Abhijeet:

fantastic movie concept

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Debo:

Daring but nothing extraordinary.

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
AJ:

I totally agree with the reviewer . It's a damn good movie and definitely a must watch!

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Hindi Radio:

Concept is nice... liked the movie... it would be more great if all the involved persons in murder of 1st couple hanged in public! really nice movie!

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
sangeeta:

awesome movie......

posted 4 months, 1 week ago
Abhishek:

The movie was disaapointing and dont even acknowledge the fact that it falls under the category of ... off beat cinema. The 3 stories were mindlessly linked and the end is abrupt. The concept was unclear and in the end we realise that the 'dhoka' was with the audience.

posted 4 months ago
J.Kamath:

Great movie; I just walked into the theatre the other day and stumbled on this masterpiece. Keeps you rooted to your seat once you get the general theme of the stories. The ending, where all the three stories, come together is very creatively done. But I hated the 'dhoka' part of it a lot where the guy ruins the life of the girl that he is in love with!!!

posted 4 months ago
Ankit:

one of the pathetic movies..i hav ever come across.. big time n money waste...guys think 100 times b4 gng to watch this movie

posted 4 months ago
jessica:

I totally agree with the reviewer .

posted 4 months ago
prince:

Sexyyyyyy
the movie is aussumn, must watch.

posted 4 months ago
rahul:

third class movie totalyy watage of time nd especially money...........

posted 4 months ago
dipayan:

real face todays so called love.. watch and mind it..

posted 4 months ago
Jose:

will surely bang, Worst ever movie of the century. Super duper flop idea ruining careers of the artists of the movie

posted 4 months ago
nikita:

There are 3 different short stories that no doubt depict the reality that exists at a few places in our country, but the way in which the reality is shown,I am left with questions that has the audience really looked at the reality ?, one, second, after seeing this are there even 10 out of 10,000 who are motivated to do something about the cruelty that exists,if not then the movie makes no sense and lastly what is the message that each one has taken home.

I say this because my experience while watching this movie was 'women in the movie were grossly commented on were insulted left right and center and were shown being treated as an object, and all the insensitive men & women in the audience were laughing their heart out adding to the comments enjoying the cruel drama'. Is this what we call entertaining our selves, laughing at on a harsh reality. And this precisely has happened because the mirch masala & the gali galoch are so highlighted to make it an entertaining package that our eyes and ears are not even sensing a pinch of the message. I do not know whom to blame.
This is no entertainment. This is no awareness and this is no culture. Then what is it? Is there a need for this? What good is it doing? Is something, every responsible citizen in this country needs to think about.

I will not be surprised to see teenagers in college and the road side mawalees commenting “muje to nangi aachi lagti hai”.

If this is the language & attitude of people in some part of India/world, instead of doing something to curb it we are spreading it all over and also making huge money out of it, in the name of showing reality to the public. I think the Censor Board was sleeping or sorry had eyes very wide open, to not to look at the damage this is making.

Even more annoying is the hypocrisy that exists in our society, a man would love, enjoy thoroughly to look at the girl in pink dress dancing in the so called item number in the movie, with all his lusty eyes, but outside the theater if some one looks with bad eyes on his sister or wife he will get furious.

Dialogues like “Kali ho ya gori, bina kapdo ke har ladki aachi dikhti hai” makes me feel sick and angry because that is a comment on me as well. And guess what I paid to here this nonsense for myself. Who so ever is responsible for putting this dialog in the movie owes an apology to me, to women at his home and family and all the other women in our society.
What kills me is the casual attitude of people when they say this is what happens, this is how guys talk & behave, this is how women are treated there

EXCUSE ME!

You may talk and behave the way you may want to. But if it involves me or my community I shall not tolerate this nonsense. Sadly I get to know that the script writer of this movie is a women and I really want to know and will know soon what was in her mind and how does she feel about the outcome.

I think there is a big need to voice this out.

posted 4 months ago
cinefreak:

@Nikita, I think the points you have raised are exactly what the director has tried to highlight. I do not think that he has made it to "entertain" the audience, in fact in the first story, the comedy part is emphasised and then the story suddenly becomes dark and "real", leaving the audience shocked. And if you found the audience "enjoying" the film, then it is a very sad state on societal values today. What has been shown in the film, is exactly what happens in many parts of the country if not all of it, in varying degrees. Such films need to be made if we have to move beyond the "mother - sister" glorification of women which is extremely hypocritical. Both men and women, and I would say especially men, need to face upto and accept the nature of relationship that exists. The movie highlights the extreme vulnerability of women and their exploitation in a male dominated world. Nowhere does the movie take a stance of titillating the audience unlike the "item numbers" and rape scenes in so called family movies.
The movie is definitely disturbing, in fact some of the men I know who saw the
film responded by saying that the film is bakwas and that is not how men act. But the truth is that most men in our country do, only thing is that it is so taken for granted that both men and women are blind to it. In fact as all the literature / statistics show women suffer silently.
The movie is very much " in your face' through the camerawork, the dialogues, and the entire context of the stories and their framing, possibly that is upsetting, because we are not used to seeing such topics presented up front.

posted 4 months ago
meetu:

@nikita i echo cinefreak's observations. The intention is not to insult women or rather anyone. Parents could take offense too, right? Not all parents or brothers are like those shown in the film.

The intention is clearly to show us the mirror. This is what we accept as, "ye to chalta rehta hai"

@cinefreak appreciate your reply to nikita

posted 4 months ago
DEV:

hey guys...... My comments will be more of an observation than going against or in favor of anyone...... What i feel is thrs darkness surrounding all of us n every way we go..its upto us to take the positive out of watever comes out of it and work to eradicate rather than blaming others.....
The film is dark but atleast it hights the ill of our society in some parts of our country..... this shud be taken as a good point and fought against....and to END..... heres a FOOD for thought....:
Hope everyone enjoyed K2h2...Kuch kuch hota hai..the big superhit movie of SRK..rite??? now..he keeps on saying in tht movie:
"..Pyaar ek hi baar hota hai" now he goes on to marry RANI.....who (unfortunately)dies, and then falls for KAJOL in the end...
so here is the situation....agar 'PYAAR ek hi baar hota hai' then which one was his 'pyaar'?? rani?? then why did he fall for kajol...and if it was kajol..then whr did lill anjali come frm??? ;)
think about it.....
cheers mate...

posted 4 months ago
Sat:

I really don't know this movie is good or bad but I like this very much. I feel very bad to see that type of movie but it is happening everywhere around us and its true. I don't know what's the motive of this movie but we know that everything in this movie is true. The language is very bad but most of us speak the same. The action (murder or scandal) is bad but reality is more bitter than this. I don't know what impression this type movie will give on our society but I believe that every person who see LSD will realize that this is reality and it should not be done.

posted 4 months ago
TS:

Watched LSD yesterday. All the praises and critical acclaim it has been getting are well deserved. As are all the negative and extreme reactions by some. Before watching it and after too, I've read several reviews and comments about the movie. Almost all of them are comments that relate directly or indirectly to the content of the movie (apart from the camera and technical antics). Some object to it being an 'unnecessary' movie - it does not have a moral takeaway; it shows the grim reality around us, but does not inspire even 10 out of 10,000 people to something about it. A commenter on a youtube video of the promo even went so far as to spam the comments section with a repeated 'all those who are in a good relationship don't watch this s--t, it will ruin you...' or suchlike. A commenter on one of the reviews said it has dialogues which are an insult to womankind. She argues the content might claim to depict reality, but showing it on screen is not the way out, something should be done to curb it.
I think, like another reviewer said it - a mirror to us. It is not entertainment in the happy sense of the word. It does not claim to entertain you. It is just good story telling. Stories are meant to evoke reactions. And a lot of times they are meant to be negative - like shock, disgust and grief. Definitely, I agree that women are often objectified in movies; this one is no different, but the difference lies in the fact that despite the dirty-talk around them, good movies show women as characters, and not just auxiliaries.
I will go on a digression here and mention another recent movie - Teen Patti. While the movie was bad enough on several counts, one thing stood out for me. The only female actor in the movie had the role to prove her abilities as a bimbo and seducer, all the while when she was supposedly studying in the same Mathematics department as the other characters. I was like, is it the only thing left for a female to do in the movie? That I felt was far more sexist in nature than any of the dialogues in LSD. And to add to the facts, the movie was directed by a woman, Leena Yadav (how rare is that?).
Coming back to LSD, it is not perfect, it doesn't try to preach, it derives from places (reality?) and it is, so to speak, in-your-face. But with its raw depiction, it manages to shock you (the murder scene is more brutal than anything carried by usual bollywood action flicks), engage you and you leave the movie with its moments strongly etched in your mind. This movie doesn't have an explicit purpose, but it definitely has its own space. For one may argue, what is 'Red Riding Hood' doing in primary class story books for decades?

Hey, what's this.. when I try to post this comment, it says, "Watch your mouth! The words "s--t" are not allowed here." Does it mean all 4-letter words starting with s and ending with t? Well, what has come to pass...

posted 3 months, 4 weeks ago
Ram Iyer:

COMPLETE JUNK MOVIE!! God, was it a movie or collection of third class documentories?

Two Thumbs Down!!!

posted 1 month, 2 weeks ago

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